Money problems is the number one Reason’s for Divorce

Money problems is the number one Reason’s for Divorce

Money problems is the number one Reason for Divorce,tackling this issue in advance will prepare you for health relationship and a greater marriage 1 B...

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Money problems is the number one Reason for Divorce,tackling this issue in advance will prepare you for health relationship and a greater marriage

1 BEFOR YOU SAY I DO:

while dating even if you are not sure the relationship will lead to marriage.this is the time to open your eyes while there are not yet closed by love,
what are his values about money,
Values are deeply rooted out in a way you raised,your experience or spiritual beliefs,his values for money will play a significant role in determining how he manage his during marriage, so whether you are single or dating begin to work on self financially, your financial portfolio, most important your values for money-these days men are not just in search of attractive wives, there are also looking for wives who also bring something to the table,

2 JUST BEFORE THE WEEDING:
now relax and understand this, depending on what stage relationship you are, there will come a time when you both have to be honest about your finances,
your debt,how much each of you earn,before you say “I DO” open the time of communication about your money,present situation and expectation,DON’T WAIT, life is full of surprises,
There are some you can avoid,
1] discussing things such managing your bank account,and what happen after you start having kids,

2 know each others financial commitment to ensure there is understanding and expectation,for example supporting extended family,

3 if possible work toward getting your finances in order to ensure you both are starting with a clean state,
once you have spoken those magic words two become one,

4 premarital counselling is a good place to reach,for understanding and flushing out the unknown,many couple have testify to this process as being very insightful

3 AS YOU PREPARED FOR THE DAY:

Once you start planing for your weeding this is the process where you get a true indication on how likely your marriage is going to be,
how you make discussion together,what are each of you values,and how you resolve you conflicts, especially when it come to spending,
1] remember,weeding day is only one day of the rest of your live, so do your self a favour not to go into debt,
and if you must borrow let it be something that will be appreciated,maybe a house,

2] when it come to weeding gift the trend is either use gift registry or request cash,this help to accumulate unnecessary items and give a good head start,

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